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Cancer vs....
Fman99 Dec 18 2015 08:40 PM |
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Found out this week that Fdad, age 70, is facing his fourth bout of lymphoma, and third since 2009. This comes on the heels of just having gotten over bout #3, which ramped up over February/March and lasted well into the summer months, and was a long and trying process of chemotherapy for him.
We're altering our family vacation plans for next spring -- originally thinking about a week in Arizona, Cactus league and the Grand Canyon, and now thinking instead about Miami, Grapefruit league (and maybe a detour to Port St Lucie), and more time with Fdad and Fmom while the times are there to be had. Can't post any of this to FB, as my dad has not revealed it to a wider audience, and need a place to vent it all out. Any thoughts/positive wishes are welcome. I am hoping that Fboy and Fgirl, ages 10/8, are given the opportunity of more years with their grandfather.
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themetfairy Dec 18 2015 09:09 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
The best of good vibes to your dad, and to all of you!
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Rockin' Doc Dec 18 2015 09:34 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
It sounds as if your father has a great fighting spirit which has served him well in his battle with lymphoma. May he kick cancer's ass once and for all this time. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family during these trying times.
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d'Kong76 Dec 19 2015 09:43 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Best to your dad, you and your family. Optimism is good!
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Mets Guy in Michigan Dec 31 2015 01:53 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Strength and courage to you. Your Dad sounds he has both in abundance. I like him!
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Fman99 Dec 31 2015 06:07 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
He has taken a turn for the worse this week. My brother and I are flying down to Ft Lauderdale tomorrow to see him. The cancer has spread to his liver. His timetable now is in the weeks/months phase. He was not lucid when we spoke, likely due to dehydration (he had an MRI that was negative). His response to the round of chemo he started today, and how he fares for the next week, will determine how much time we have left.
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themetfairy Dec 31 2015 11:10 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So sorry to hear the news. All the best of good vibes to all of you.
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d'Kong76 Jan 01 2016 11:29 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Sorry to hear. Sucks.
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Rockin' Doc Jan 01 2016 12:44 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So sorry to hear of your father's sudden turn for the worse. Safe travels to you and your brother.
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dgwphotography Jan 01 2016 12:46 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
I'm really sorry to hear of this turn. Hopefully things will turn back around
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cooby classic Jan 03 2016 06:15 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Prayers for you and your family Fman. Our thoughts are all with you
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Fman99 Jan 05 2016 07:28 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks all.
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John Cougar Lunchbucket Jan 05 2016 07:54 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Hang in there! You got the right perspective to make it.
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El Segundo Escupidor Jan 05 2016 11:08 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Having had the opportunity to see you as a father and as a husband I can vouch for that. I am certain that you will have strength and courage to get through this testing time.
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Fman99 Jan 05 2016 07:46 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks gang. I love you guys.
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Centerfield Jan 06 2016 09:13 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Will be thinking of you Fman.
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cooby classic Jan 07 2016 09:45 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Glad you got to spend time together. I am sure he loved it!
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cooby classic Jan 07 2016 09:50 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Fman I don't know how old you are but there is an old song by David Gates and Bread called 'Everything I Own' that you may remember. David Gates wrote it when his dad passed away.
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Fman99 Jan 08 2016 10:11 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks coobs. I forget, sometimes, that not everyone here is also my FB friend and doesn't get every update.
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cooby classic Jan 08 2016 12:13 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
That is WONDERFUL :D
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Ashie62 Feb 18 2016 06:44 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Fman, keep looking forward. God Bless.
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Fman99 Feb 19 2016 08:38 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks Ashie.
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dgwphotography Feb 22 2016 09:38 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Fman, my condolences for your loss.
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Fman99 Feb 22 2016 10:11 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks man.
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Edgy MD Feb 23 2016 08:07 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
All the best to you and yours.
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Rockin' Doc Dec 23 2017 01:16 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Yesterday morning my dermatologist called to inform me that a biopsy from my left arm (along my tricep) came back a positive for melanoma. I am being referred to UNC oncology for evaluation to determine if the melanoma has metastasized elsewhere or was localized and to have Mohs surgery to remove the tumor. At best, I will have a considerable chuck taken out of the back of my left tricep region. Hopefully, the cancer hasn't spread elsewhere within my system.
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41Forever Dec 24 2017 03:40 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Hang in there, my friend. Lots of folks are pulling for you.
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d'Kong76 Dec 27 2017 08:56 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Sister-in-law is on the ropes, wish nature would take her.
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seawolf17 Dec 28 2017 08:14 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Missed this. Be strong, Doc. Wishing you the best.
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MFS62 Dec 29 2017 07:05 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Our thoughts are with you and your family. Later
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d'Kong76 Dec 29 2017 01:10 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Thank you. KB is in the air as I type to say goodbye. Her sister texted her this morning that she didn't die in the night, a pretty dreary thing. She held on for Xmas with her daughters/grand kids and my guess is that she'll go this weekend after seeing her sister one more time. I hope, it's no way to live once it gets to a certain point.
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Rockin' Doc Jan 01 2018 08:28 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So sorry to hear that KB's sister is doing so poorly. I hope they have a as good a visit as the circumstances will allow. I will keep KB and her family in my thoughts and prayers.
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cooby Jan 02 2018 04:15 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So very sorry :(
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d'Kong76 Jan 02 2018 09:11 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks all. Over the weekend everyone out there had a family meeting
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cooby Jan 02 2018 09:34 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Wow I honestly did not know that was an legal option. Im glad she will be at peace. Again so sorry KC and KB
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d'Kong76 Jan 02 2018 10:46 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks so much. It's legal in California.
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Rockin' Doc Jan 06 2018 07:30 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Yesterday afternoon I had my initial visit with my cancer team at UNC Cancer Hospital. The results of my visit were very encouraging. After being checked out by both a resident intern and then my doctor, they found no evidence of any other suspicious lesions on my skin. They said that histological studies of the biopsy do show a melanoma, but it appears to be consistent with one in an early stage of development. My doctor says he feels there is roughly a 90% chance that the melanoma is isolated and has not spread further, but we will not know for certain until I have the melanoma removed. I will have further testing (Xrays w/ & w/o dye injected around the lesion) and surgical excision in 2 weeks (January 18th).
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seawolf17 Jan 06 2018 08:02 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Go get 'em, Doc. Hope one excision is all you ever need!
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d'Kong76 Jan 06 2018 09:54 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Good news, RD!
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Fman99 Jan 08 2018 06:02 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Awesome news !
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Rockin' Doc Jan 18 2018 05:09 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Heading home after a very long day. Arrived at hospital for testing a 7:45 AM. Released to head home following surgery at 6:15 PM. I'm a little sore and tired, but overall everything went well. Haven't eaten for a little over 24 hours, but surprisingly, I'm not very hungry.
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cooby Jan 18 2018 07:33 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So happy to hear this and hoping all goes well. If you still have my email please write to me when you can. I would love to talk to you
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Zvon Jan 19 2018 09:56 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
So sorry Fman. These types of things can weigh heavy on ones mind & spirit. But I know you will get through it.
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MFS62 Jan 21 2018 08:00 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Stay strong, RD. We're with you. Later
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cooby Jan 21 2018 04:37 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Was going to wait until after it was done but I'll share now. My sister will have a procedure on her brain tumor tomorrow to hopefully treat some new growth. She has had brain cancer for three and a half years. A lot of ups and downs but treatments (and tons of prayers) have kept her going this long.
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Zvon Jan 21 2018 07:03 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
I guess I should have read the entire thread before posting. I really feel for all of you who have bared their problems on this thread.
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Rockin' Doc Jan 21 2018 08:21 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
My thoughts and prayers that all goes well with your sisters surgery tomorrow.
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Centerfield Jan 22 2018 11:29 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
RD,
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Rockin' Doc Jan 22 2018 06:40 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks everyone for the concern and well wishes. It's nice to have a cyber support group.
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Fman99 Jan 23 2018 05:42 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Glad you're on the mend Doc!
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cooby Jan 23 2018 09:35 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Hi guys...I talked to my sister tonight for a while and she is ...in her own words ...okay...
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Rockin' Doc Jan 24 2018 07:55 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Very happy to hear that your sister is doing better. I hope her recovery continues to go well and her overall health continues to improve.
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cooby Jan 25 2018 03:01 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thank you!
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Rockin' Doc Jan 27 2018 09:48 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Had my first postop visit with my surgical oncologist. He said my surgery is healing well. He told me that the pathology report came back negative on the 5 axillary lymph nodes removed from under my left arm. He declared me "100 cancer free" at present. It was as good a check up. I have another follow up in 2 weeks for the removal of my stitches.
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d'Kong76 Jan 28 2018 08:33 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Excellent news, RD!
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Benjamin Grimm Jan 28 2018 09:53 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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I'm not a doctor, but I would say that this definitely qualifies as good news!
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cooby Jan 28 2018 01:40 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Yay!
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Fman99 Jan 28 2018 09:06 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Boo ya to that!
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dgwphotography Jan 29 2018 08:54 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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and I didn't stay at a Holiday Inn, either, but this is certainly good news! Congratulations!
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Centerfield Jan 29 2018 10:19 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Awesome. Just terrific.
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seawolf17 Jan 29 2018 10:45 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
YAY DOC!
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Zvon Jan 29 2018 04:47 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
WooHoo! 2 u, RD! :)
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41Forever Jan 29 2018 06:05 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Fantastic!!!!!
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Edgy MD Feb 05 2018 04:41 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Congratulations on landing a roundhouse kick. I'm very happy to hear this, and I'm not a happy man.
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seawolf17 Feb 11 2018 07:44 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
A friend of ours, a guy I've played on many stages with the past couple of years, has leukemia that came on very hard and very fast. My age -- two girls, a little younger than my kids -- and I'm gutted.
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Edgy MD Feb 12 2018 10:26 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
I'm very sorry. Be strong. Obviously a lousy time to be moving, too.
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Rockin' Doc Feb 12 2018 06:50 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Seawolf, I'm so sorry to hear of your friends leukemia. I hope he can kick it's ass into remission.
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TheOldMole Feb 13 2018 08:48 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Just finished my chemo and radiation treatments. Last step is a week from Friday, in to NYU Hospital for a surgical procedure with Dr. Who which will take the place of two more weeks of radiation.
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seawolf17 Feb 13 2018 08:57 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Go get 'em, Mole. Wishing you the best.
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MFS62 Feb 13 2018 08:01 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Get all the treatments you can, so you will be strong enough to finish the Jazz book.
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TheOldMole Feb 14 2018 01:12 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Tumor gone!!!
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Centerfield Feb 14 2018 02:54 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Beyond awesome. Way to go Mole!
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Benjamin Grimm Feb 14 2018 02:58 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Great news indeed!
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seawolf17 Feb 15 2018 05:33 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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LOVE IT. Best wishes for continued good news!
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41Forever Feb 15 2018 07:33 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Bravo! Great news, my friend.
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cooby Feb 15 2018 11:25 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Good news Old Mole!
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Fman99 Feb 16 2018 06:20 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Fantastic news.
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Edgy MD Feb 16 2018 10:17 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Good news: The best acquisition of the offseason.
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Rockin' Doc Feb 17 2018 04:29 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Awesome news, Mole! Glad to hear that you are in the home stretch of your battle.
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MFS62 Feb 21 2018 03:03 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Cancer vs.... ME.
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metirish Feb 22 2018 07:50 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Great news Old Mole , wishing you the very best
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Benjamin Grimm Feb 22 2018 07:59 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Best of luck, MFS62. And congratulations on getting into Yale!
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TheOldMole Feb 22 2018 08:24 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
NYU Hospital Friday, coinciding with Mets Grapefruit opener. There till next Thursday. Last phase of treatment.
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MFS62 Feb 22 2018 11:42 AM Re: Cancer vs.... Edited 1 time(s), most recently on Feb 22 2018 12:17 PM |
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Best wishes for the best outcome. You're in the home stretch now. Metirish and Ben, thanks for your kind words. Now we gotta beat them Harvards. I'm home now (I guess they couldn't stand me any more) with a scar the size of the NY Thruway, a lot of pain, and plenty of of drugs to fight the pain. I'll be meeting the surgeon in about a week or so to discuss the tests that show how much renal functionality I will have. Later
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d'Kong76 Feb 22 2018 12:01 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Best to you both, TOMole and MFS.
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MFS62 Feb 22 2018 03:29 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, Kase
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John Cougar Lunchbucket Feb 23 2018 06:39 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Great news Moleman. Hang in there MFS
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seawolf17 Feb 23 2018 07:05 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
This is the kind of winning I'll never get tired of. Best wishes for continued strength and good health, fellas.
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MFS62 Feb 23 2018 10:20 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, friends.
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cooby Feb 23 2018 10:29 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
AW, MFS, I just saw this! Best wishes for a full and soon, I hope, pain free recovery!
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MFS62 Feb 23 2018 02:11 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Another friend heard from. I knew you must have missed it. Thanks. Later
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cooby Feb 23 2018 03:06 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
:)
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Edgy MD Feb 24 2018 08:06 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Everybody heal, damn it.
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MFS62 Feb 24 2018 08:26 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, coach. :)
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Rockin' Doc Feb 24 2018 03:45 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Glad the old mole has just about finished kicking cancers ass. Keep up the good fight.
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MFS62 Feb 25 2018 06:20 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, Doc.
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cooby Feb 28 2018 05:20 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Today is my mom’s 88th birthday, and my sister’s 66th. Sister is now in a nursing home. She and her three ‘roommates’ have their TVs blaring with daytime tv. What used to be ads for laundry soap and goodies for family supper is now drug ads, particularly for cancer.
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MFS62 Feb 28 2018 05:40 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Best to your family.
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Nymr83 Mar 01 2018 10:43 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
They are meant to drive sales by prompting people who otherwise wouldn't have to go ask their doctor about the drug.
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TheOldMole Mar 22 2018 06:11 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
NYU Hospital was grueling but worth it.
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MFS62 Mar 24 2018 07:41 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Mole, I'm with ya'. I hope to go back to work this Monday to test if I'll be able to return full time. Recovery is a bi**h. It has been very painful. But then, I consider the alternative. Later
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Rockin' Doc Mar 24 2018 08:14 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Mole and 62, I am glad you are both improving as you near the end of your grueling battles with cancer. I wish you both continued improvement in your recoveries.
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MFS62 Mar 24 2018 10:35 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, Doc. I'll be rooting for Duke along with you.
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41Forever Mar 28 2018 02:47 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Big time!
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Edgy MD Aug 05 2018 08:17 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
The Great Molio just reported that he's in recovery from an 11-hour adventure on the operating table. Sounds like he's got a solid prognosis going forward but I'm sure he could use all our best.
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cooby Aug 06 2018 04:59 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
He’s got it!
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MFS62 Aug 07 2018 07:44 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Yep.
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Rockin' Doc Aug 07 2018 08:00 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
My thoughts and prayers are with you Mole. Hope you have a speedy and complete recovery.
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MFS62 Aug 31 2018 07:30 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
I went for my six month checkup and the tests showed the surgery was a success. The carcinoma didn't spread. The Doctor said to come back in a year.
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seawolf17 Aug 31 2018 07:36 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Good news, 62! Congrats. (On everything except all the work you have to do around the house.)
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Benjamin Grimm Aug 31 2018 07:40 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Congratulations!
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d'Kong76 Aug 31 2018 09:20 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Good to hear! Now grab an ax and a chainsaw and cut four months of
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41Forever Aug 31 2018 12:46 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Outstanding !!!!! You are tough!
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MFS62 Sep 01 2018 03:11 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Thanks, folks.
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Rockin' Doc Sep 01 2018 06:01 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Wonderful news, 62. Glad to hear of your great check ups.
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Ashie62 Nov 06 2018 08:14 PM Re: Cancer vs.... |
Just a prayer for anyone or loved one fighting cancer
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MFS62 Nov 08 2018 07:13 AM Re: Cancer vs.... |
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Thanks, Ashie. Later
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