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Fman99
Dec 18 2015 08:40 PM

Found out this week that Fdad, age 70, is facing his fourth bout of lymphoma, and third since 2009. This comes on the heels of just having gotten over bout #3, which ramped up over February/March and lasted well into the summer months, and was a long and trying process of chemotherapy for him.

He's trying at least to spin it positively. I am working to conjure up as much optimism as possible.

Fdad wrote:
I have a little bad news, and a little good news. The lymphoma has recurred. I found out from Pet scan I had for the doctor. I have just started the chemo regimen again, but with a different chemicals for the treatment.
The good news is
1. I've started the new treatment and some of the symptoms are already improving.
2. The treatment is a lot easier, only 1 1/2 days of chemo every four weeks
3. Both the doctor, and I are optimistic about the outcome.
Please don't get too upset. I still feel OK, and nothing hurts. The symptoms are not debilitating, just fatigue, hair loss.(Unfortunately, since it was just beginning to grow back.) and some minor bone pain, that is treated with Advil, which seems to be a very effective pain reliever. Mom and I will be our karaoking for the next few nights. We will call you boys sometime this weekend.


We're altering our family vacation plans for next spring -- originally thinking about a week in Arizona, Cactus league and the Grand Canyon, and now thinking instead about Miami, Grapefruit league (and maybe a detour to Port St Lucie), and more time with Fdad and Fmom while the times are there to be had.

Can't post any of this to FB, as my dad has not revealed it to a wider audience, and need a place to vent it all out. Any thoughts/positive wishes are welcome. I am hoping that Fboy and Fgirl, ages 10/8, are given the opportunity of more years with their grandfather.

themetfairy
Dec 18 2015 09:09 PM
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The best of good vibes to your dad, and to all of you!

Rockin' Doc
Dec 18 2015 09:34 PM
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It sounds as if your father has a great fighting spirit which has served him well in his battle with lymphoma. May he kick cancer's ass once and for all this time. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family during these trying times.

Having suddenly lost my father to acute leukemia 3 years ago this coming January, I know how precious time with our family truly is. I would give anything to be able to play a round of golf and down a few beers together one more time. Cherish the time you have together and never take it for granted. I sincerely hope and pray that will you have many more years to share together.

d'Kong76
Dec 19 2015 09:43 AM
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Best to your dad, you and your family. Optimism is good!
Frickin' cancer this year just makes me wanna scream out loud.

Mets Guy in Michigan
Dec 31 2015 01:53 PM
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Strength and courage to you. Your Dad sounds he has both in abundance. I like him!

Fman99
Dec 31 2015 06:07 PM
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He has taken a turn for the worse this week. My brother and I are flying down to Ft Lauderdale tomorrow to see him. The cancer has spread to his liver. His timetable now is in the weeks/months phase. He was not lucid when we spoke, likely due to dehydration (he had an MRI that was negative). His response to the round of chemo he started today, and how he fares for the next week, will determine how much time we have left.

themetfairy
Dec 31 2015 11:10 PM
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So sorry to hear the news. All the best of good vibes to all of you.

{{Hugs}}

d'Kong76
Jan 01 2016 11:29 AM
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Sorry to hear. Sucks.

Rockin' Doc
Jan 01 2016 12:44 PM
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So sorry to hear of your father's sudden turn for the worse. Safe travels to you and your brother.

dgwphotography
Jan 01 2016 12:46 PM
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I'm really sorry to hear of this turn. Hopefully things will turn back around

cooby classic
Jan 03 2016 06:15 PM
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Prayers for you and your family Fman. Our thoughts are all with you

Fman99
Jan 05 2016 07:28 AM
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Thanks all.

My father and I had a chance to say important things to each other this weekend, regardless of how many more times we may see each other in person. That is a blessing I believe.

My dad is still dying. His prognosis gives him somewhere in the weeks/months range. I will miss him. Any compliment or credit on the quality of person, husband or father that i get comes from him. I believe that the children have to walk the path, but that the parents have to put them on the right road. Which he did, and which I told him this past weekend.

I am trying to put my kids on the right road, much as he and my mother have done for my brother and I. To follow his example.

John Cougar Lunchbucket
Jan 05 2016 07:54 AM
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Hang in there! You got the right perspective to make it.

El Segundo Escupidor
Jan 05 2016 11:08 AM
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Fman99 wrote:
Thanks all.

My father and I had a chance to say important things to each other this weekend, regardless of how many more times we may see each other in person. That is a blessing I believe.

My dad is still dying. His prognosis gives him somewhere in the weeks/months range. I will miss him. Any compliment or credit on the quality of person, husband or father that i get comes from him. I believe that the children have to walk the path, but that the parents have to put them on the right road. Which he did, and which I told him this past weekend.

I am trying to put my kids on the right road, much as he and my mother have done for my brother and I. To follow his example.

Having had the opportunity to see you as a father and as a husband I can vouch for that.

I am certain that you will have strength and courage to get through this testing time.

Fman99
Jan 05 2016 07:46 PM
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Thanks gang. I love you guys.

Centerfield
Jan 06 2016 09:13 PM
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Will be thinking of you Fman.

Wish I had the words.

cooby classic
Jan 07 2016 09:45 AM
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Glad you got to spend time together. I am sure he loved it!

cooby classic
Jan 07 2016 09:50 AM
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Fman I don't know how old you are but there is an old song by David Gates and Bread called 'Everything I Own' that you may remember. David Gates wrote it when his dad passed away.
When I lost my father it gave me some degree of comfort and maybe it could help you during this awful time.

Fman99
Jan 08 2016 10:11 AM
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Thanks coobs. I forget, sometimes, that not everyone here is also my FB friend and doesn't get every update.

My father's condition improved significantly over the last week, at least, outwardly. He still has lymphoma in an aggressive fashion, and it's in his liver, but he responded well to chemo, and a blood transfusion, and maybe also a visit from my brother and I and knowing that we're helping my mom get situated for when he's not around to help her with certain things, and by the time we left Florida on Monday he had regained his appetite. I left for the airport and he was sitting upright in a chair next to his bed, for the first time in many days.

He has since gone home, arriving last night. No one can say how long his better health/feeling will last but it's a great thing, given that five days ago we were making arrangements for my dad to enter hospice care.

cooby classic
Jan 08 2016 12:13 PM
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That is WONDERFUL :D


If you are who I think you are, I sent you a friend request, lol

Ashie62
Feb 18 2016 06:44 PM
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Fman, keep looking forward. God Bless.

Fman99
Feb 19 2016 08:38 PM
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Thanks Ashie.

For those of you who are not friends with me on Facebook, or perhaps missed it in another thread, Fdad passed away on January 24th, at age 70, after a week spent receiving hospice care at home. He took a turn for the worse shortly after this last post, and then was readmitted to the hospital for a week or so, at which point he was able to return home to receive hospice care. He died with Fmom by his side, peacefully.

It's been a mixed bag of emotions in the weeks since his passing. Grief is a strange thing, really, in the way it washes over you like waves. I missed being able to call him this week to talk about pitchers and catchers reporting. I've been missing him on Sundays, which was the day I would call each week to make chit chat and give him a chance to talk to the kids. I would love to be able to just talk about the books we were reading, or the weather, or any other damn thing that might come up.

We're headed down to Ft. Lauderdale next month, for a week of sun and warmth and escape from an upstate NY winter. The services for my dad will be held while we are there, and we will get to see family members and have remembrances of him and people to share them with. And, maybe, after the services, we will get a bit of closure and the wounds will maybe heal more.

Maybe not. Maybe it will take longer. It's all uncharted territory for me. Aside from losing elderly grandparents I don't have much personal experience with loss. I've been lucky to live nearly 43 years before facing all of this.

dgwphotography
Feb 22 2016 09:38 AM
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Fman, my condolences for your loss.

I was 50 when my dad passed away, and like you, losing my dad was the first that I've faced something like this. There will be days where it will get easier, but there will also be days where the smallest thing will hit you like a ton of bricks. Every time I seeing the last image I took of him is like a fresh kick in the gut.

All I can say is to try and be there for your mom when she needs you, and to focus on your kids. That's what gets me through it every day.

Fman99
Feb 22 2016 10:11 AM
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Thanks man.

Edgy MD
Feb 23 2016 08:07 PM
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All the best to you and yours.

Sorry it has to work out this way.

Rockin' Doc
Dec 23 2017 01:16 PM
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Yesterday morning my dermatologist called to inform me that a biopsy from my left arm (along my tricep) came back a positive for melanoma. I am being referred to UNC oncology for evaluation to determine if the melanoma has metastasized elsewhere or was localized and to have Mohs surgery to remove the tumor. At best, I will have a considerable chuck taken out of the back of my left tricep region. Hopefully, the cancer hasn't spread elsewhere within my system.

41Forever
Dec 24 2017 03:40 PM
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Hang in there, my friend. Lots of folks are pulling for you.

d'Kong76
Dec 27 2017 08:56 PM
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Sister-in-law is on the ropes, wish nature would take her.

seawolf17
Dec 28 2017 08:14 AM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
Yesterday morning my dermatologist called to inform me that a biopsy from my left arm (along my tricep) came back a positive for melanoma. I am being referred to UNC oncology for evaluation to determine if the melanoma has metastasized elsewhere or was localized and to have Mohs surgery to remove the tumor. At best, I will have a considerable chuck taken out of the back of my left tricep region. Hopefully, the cancer hasn't spread elsewhere within my system.

Missed this. Be strong, Doc. Wishing you the best.

MFS62
Dec 29 2017 07:05 AM
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d'Kong76 wrote:
Sister-in-law is on the ropes, wish nature would take her.

Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Later

d'Kong76
Dec 29 2017 01:10 PM
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MFS62 wrote:
d'Kong76 wrote:
Sister-in-law is on the ropes, wish nature would take her.

Our thoughts are with you and your family.

Thank you. KB is in the air as I type to say goodbye. Her sister texted
her this morning that she didn't die in the night, a pretty dreary thing.
She held on for Xmas with her daughters/grand kids and my guess is
that she'll go this weekend after seeing her sister one more time.

I hope, it's no way to live once it gets to a certain point.

Rockin' Doc
Jan 01 2018 08:28 PM
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So sorry to hear that KB's sister is doing so poorly. I hope they have a as good a visit as the circumstances will allow. I will keep KB and her family in my thoughts and prayers.

cooby
Jan 02 2018 04:15 AM
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So very sorry :(

d'Kong76
Jan 02 2018 09:11 AM
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Thanks all. Over the weekend everyone out there had a family meeting
and decided that today at noon (our time) they would commence the end-
of-life procedure. She will take two doses of anti-nausea meds for two hours
and then they have fifty capsules a family member (or members) will mix with
some liquid and she will drink that. There is some worry that she may not be
able to keep the mixture down and hope is the double shot of anti-nausea
stuff will help with that. I don't know why they can't do this intravenously,
one of daughters is a RN for chrissakes. She will get drowsy, slip into a coma
and expire after some time.

I'm happy for her that she will no longer suffer and applaud her bravery.
I guess no one knows what the end is ever going to be like. I have been
hoping for weeks that we'd get a call that she went quietly in her sleep.
I'm not so sure I could take switch-flipping meds or worse be in the room
to assist a loved one end it all no matter how dire their situation?

I will miss occasionally skyping. We often joked around that we got along
so well because of the three thousand miles between us. She was a decades-
long card carrying member of AA. "Every time I see you you have a beer in
your hand, you need to stop that!" Well, I'll raise one last one to you this
afternoon. Sleep well and rest in peace.

cooby
Jan 02 2018 09:34 AM
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Wow I honestly did not know that was an legal option. Im glad she will be at peace. Again so sorry KC and KB

d'Kong76
Jan 02 2018 10:46 AM
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Thanks so much. It's legal in California.

Rockin' Doc
Jan 06 2018 07:30 AM
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Yesterday afternoon I had my initial visit with my cancer team at UNC Cancer Hospital. The results of my visit were very encouraging. After being checked out by both a resident intern and then my doctor, they found no evidence of any other suspicious lesions on my skin. They said that histological studies of the biopsy do show a melanoma, but it appears to be consistent with one in an early stage of development. My doctor says he feels there is roughly a 90% chance that the melanoma is isolated and has not spread further, but we will not know for certain until I have the melanoma removed. I will have further testing (Xrays w/ & w/o dye injected around the lesion) and surgical excision in 2 weeks (January 18th).

I feel less anxious and much more relaxed following my visit.

seawolf17
Jan 06 2018 08:02 AM
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Go get 'em, Doc. Hope one excision is all you ever need!

d'Kong76
Jan 06 2018 09:54 AM
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Good news, RD!

Fman99
Jan 08 2018 06:02 AM
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Awesome news !

Rockin' Doc
Jan 18 2018 05:09 PM
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Heading home after a very long day. Arrived at hospital for testing a 7:45 AM. Released to head home following surgery at 6:15 PM. I'm a little sore and tired, but overall everything went well. Haven't eaten for a little over 24 hours, but surprisingly, I'm not very hungry.

cooby
Jan 18 2018 07:33 PM
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So happy to hear this and hoping all goes well. If you still have my email please write to me when you can. I would love to talk to you

Zvon
Jan 19 2018 09:56 PM
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So sorry Fman. These types of things can weigh heavy on ones mind & spirit. But I know you will get through it.

MFS62
Jan 21 2018 08:00 AM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
Heading home after a very long day. Arrived at hospital for testing a 7:45 AM. Released to head home following surgery at 6:15 PM. I'm a little sore and tired, but overall everything went well. Haven't eaten for a little over 24 hours, but surprisingly, I'm not very hungry.

Stay strong, RD. We're with you.

Later

cooby
Jan 21 2018 04:37 PM
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Was going to wait until after it was done but I'll share now. My sister will have a procedure on her brain tumor tomorrow to hopefully treat some new growth. She has had brain cancer for three and a half years. A lot of ups and downs but treatments (and tons of prayers) have kept her going this long.

Zvon
Jan 21 2018 07:03 PM
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I guess I should have read the entire thread before posting. I really feel for all of you who have bared their problems on this thread.

Rockin' Doc
Jan 21 2018 08:21 PM
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My thoughts and prayers that all goes well with your sisters surgery tomorrow.

Centerfield
Jan 22 2018 11:29 AM
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RD,

I am so happy to hear of the positive turn of events. I hope the recovery is going well and you are starting to get your appetite back.

I look forward to complaining about the Wilpons together for the next 50 years.

(yes, Fred will still be alive then. I don't know how, I just know he will)

Rockin' Doc
Jan 22 2018 06:40 PM
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Thanks everyone for the concern and well wishes. It's nice to have a cyber support group.

CF, I look forward to complaining about the incompetence and stupidity of the Wilpons for as long as I am here. I doubt I have another 50 years in me though.

Considering I have 50-60 stitches in my upper arm and a 5 inch incision below my underarm where they removed my lymph nodes, I really don't feel too bad at all. No real pain, just some mild discomfort. I went to my office and did some paper work on Friday morning and returned to seeing patients today. I'm more tired than sore. Unfortunately, my appetite has not been a problem and I have gained about 7-8 pounds in the past week.

cooby, I sincerely pray that all went wel with your sister's procedure today.

Fman99
Jan 23 2018 05:42 AM
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Glad you're on the mend Doc!

cooby
Jan 23 2018 09:35 PM
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Hi guys...I talked to my sister tonight for a while and she is ...in her own words ...okay...
Really better than she has been in awhile. A lot of our conversations lately have been very... odd.

Love my big sister and I hope you understand that I've been wrapped up in her

Rockin' Doc
Jan 24 2018 07:55 PM
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Very happy to hear that your sister is doing better. I hope her recovery continues to go well and her overall health continues to improve.

cooby
Jan 25 2018 03:01 AM
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Thank you!

Rockin' Doc
Jan 27 2018 09:48 PM
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Had my first postop visit with my surgical oncologist. He said my surgery is healing well. He told me that the pathology report came back negative on the 5 axillary lymph nodes removed from under my left arm. He declared me "100 cancer free" at present. It was as good a check up. I have another follow up in 2 weeks for the removal of my stitches.

d'Kong76
Jan 28 2018 08:33 AM
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Excellent news, RD!

Benjamin Grimm
Jan 28 2018 09:53 AM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
He declared me "100 cancer free" at present.


I'm not a doctor, but I would say that this definitely qualifies as good news!

cooby
Jan 28 2018 01:40 PM
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Yay!

Fman99
Jan 28 2018 09:06 PM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
Had my first postop visit with my surgical oncologist. He said my surgery is healing well. He told me that the pathology report came back negative on the 5 axillary lymph nodes removed from under my left arm. He declared me "100 cancer free" at present. It was as good a check up. I have another follow up in 2 weeks for the removal of my stitches.


Boo ya to that!

dgwphotography
Jan 29 2018 08:54 AM
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Benjamin Grimm wrote:
Rockin' Doc wrote:
He declared me "100 cancer free" at present.


I'm not a doctor, but I would say that this definitely qualifies as good news!


and I didn't stay at a Holiday Inn, either, but this is certainly good news! Congratulations!

Centerfield
Jan 29 2018 10:19 AM
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Awesome. Just terrific.

seawolf17
Jan 29 2018 10:45 AM
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YAY DOC!

Zvon
Jan 29 2018 04:47 PM
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WooHoo! 2 u, RD! :)

41Forever
Jan 29 2018 06:05 PM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
Had my first postop visit with my surgical oncologist. He said my surgery is healing well. He told me that the pathology report came back negative on the 5 axillary lymph nodes removed from under my left arm. He declared me "100 cancer free" at present. It was as good a check up. I have another follow up in 2 weeks for the removal of my stitches.



Fantastic!!!!!

Edgy MD
Feb 05 2018 04:41 PM
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Congratulations on landing a roundhouse kick. I'm very happy to hear this, and I'm not a happy man.

seawolf17
Feb 11 2018 07:44 PM
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A friend of ours, a guy I've played on many stages with the past couple of years, has leukemia that came on very hard and very fast. My age -- two girls, a little younger than my kids -- and I'm gutted.

Edgy MD
Feb 12 2018 10:26 AM
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I'm very sorry. Be strong. Obviously a lousy time to be moving, too.

Rockin' Doc
Feb 12 2018 06:50 PM
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Seawolf, I'm so sorry to hear of your friends leukemia. I hope he can kick it's ass into remission.

TheOldMole
Feb 13 2018 08:48 AM
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Just finished my chemo and radiation treatments. Last step is a week from Friday, in to NYU Hospital for a surgical procedure with Dr. Who which will take the place of two more weeks of radiation.

seawolf17
Feb 13 2018 08:57 AM
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TheOldMole wrote:
Just finished my chemo and radiation treatments. Last step is a week from Friday, in to NYU Hospital for a surgical procedure with Dr. Who which will take the place of two more weeks of radiation.

Go get 'em, Mole. Wishing you the best.

MFS62
Feb 13 2018 08:01 PM
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Get all the treatments you can, so you will be strong enough to finish the Jazz book.

Later

TheOldMole
Feb 14 2018 01:12 PM
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Tumor gone!!!

Still need the radiation implant treatment. But Dr. Smith was beaming.

Centerfield
Feb 14 2018 02:54 PM
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Beyond awesome. Way to go Mole!

Benjamin Grimm
Feb 14 2018 02:58 PM
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Great news indeed!

And good for Doctor Smith, too!

seawolf17
Feb 15 2018 05:33 AM
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TheOldMole wrote:
Tumor gone!!!

Still need the radiation implant treatment. But Dr. Smith was beaming.

LOVE IT. Best wishes for continued good news!

41Forever
Feb 15 2018 07:33 AM
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TheOldMole wrote:
Tumor gone!!!

Still need the radiation implant treatment. But Dr. Smith was beaming.


Bravo! Great news, my friend.

cooby
Feb 15 2018 11:25 AM
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Good news Old Mole!

Fman99
Feb 16 2018 06:20 AM
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Fantastic news.

Edgy MD
Feb 16 2018 10:17 AM
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Good news: The best acquisition of the offseason.

Rockin' Doc
Feb 17 2018 04:29 PM
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Awesome news, Mole! Glad to hear that you are in the home stretch of your battle.

MFS62
Feb 21 2018 03:03 PM
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Cancer vs.... ME.
I entered Yale New Haven Hospital on Monday.
A series of medical tests I'd taken in December and February because of diminished kidney function revealed three cysts on my right kidney. Two were benign, but had each grown to over 15 CM. One was malignant - it was over 7 cm in size.
The primary concern was whether part or all of the kidney would have to be removed.
It looks like they were able to remove the malignant cyst and only 15% of the kidney.

Just call me Deadpool.*

Later

* oh yeah, the line in the movie about super penis was correct. Just sayin'.

metirish
Feb 22 2018 07:50 AM
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Great news Old Mole , wishing you the very best

mfs62 , wishing you a speedy recovery , get well soon

Benjamin Grimm
Feb 22 2018 07:59 AM
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Best of luck, MFS62. And congratulations on getting into Yale!

TheOldMole
Feb 22 2018 08:24 AM
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NYU Hospital Friday, coinciding with Mets Grapefruit opener. There till next Thursday. Last phase of treatment.

MFS62
Feb 22 2018 11:42 AM
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Edited 1 time(s), most recently on Feb 22 2018 12:17 PM

TheOldMole wrote:
NYU Hospital Friday, coinciding with Mets Grapefruit opener. There till next Thursday. Last phase of treatment.


Best wishes for the best outcome. You're in the home stretch now.

Metirish and Ben, thanks for your kind words.
Now we gotta beat them Harvards.
I'm home now (I guess they couldn't stand me any more) with a scar the size of the NY Thruway, a lot of pain, and plenty of of drugs to fight the pain.
I'll be meeting the surgeon in about a week or so to discuss the tests that show how much renal functionality I will have.

Later

d'Kong76
Feb 22 2018 12:01 PM
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Best to you both, TOMole and MFS.

MFS62
Feb 22 2018 03:29 PM
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Thanks, Kase

Later

John Cougar Lunchbucket
Feb 23 2018 06:39 AM
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Great news Moleman. Hang in there MFS

seawolf17
Feb 23 2018 07:05 AM
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This is the kind of winning I'll never get tired of. Best wishes for continued strength and good health, fellas.

MFS62
Feb 23 2018 10:20 AM
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Thanks, friends.
Later

cooby
Feb 23 2018 10:29 AM
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AW, MFS, I just saw this! Best wishes for a full and soon, I hope, pain free recovery!

MFS62
Feb 23 2018 02:11 PM
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cooby wrote:
AW, MFS, I just saw this! Best wishes for a full and soon, I hope, pain free recovery!

Another friend heard from. I knew you must have missed it. Thanks.

Later

cooby
Feb 23 2018 03:06 PM
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:)

Edgy MD
Feb 24 2018 08:06 AM
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Everybody heal, damn it.

MFS62
Feb 24 2018 08:26 AM
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Thanks, coach. :)
Later

Rockin' Doc
Feb 24 2018 03:45 PM
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Glad the old mole has just about finished kicking cancers ass. Keep up the good fight.

MFS62, glad your surgery went well and you are home recuperating. Hang in there and I hope the pain diminishes very soon.

I am praying and pulling for both of you.

MFS62
Feb 25 2018 06:20 AM
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Thanks, Doc.
Later

cooby
Feb 28 2018 05:20 PM
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Today is my mom’s 88th birthday, and my sister’s 66th. Sister is now in a nursing home. She and her three ‘roommates’ have their TVs blaring with daytime tv. What used to be ads for laundry soap and goodies for family supper is now drug ads, particularly for cancer.
Take this or that and you’ll be walking around the neighborhood with your spouse in no time.
Vicki cannot even move her left side and never again will

Bastards.

MFS62
Feb 28 2018 05:40 PM
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Best to your family.
I don't know who those ads target. Are we supposed to go to our doctor and ask if they have heard of the drugs, or if we want the doctor to prescribe them? And what doctor should listen to us?
I'm guessing they are there to attract investors, and the companies don't care about the patient.

Later

Nymr83
Mar 01 2018 10:43 AM
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They are meant to drive sales by prompting people who otherwise wouldn't have to go ask their doctor about the drug.

I'm of mixed feelings about it. On the one hand, your doctor would be a preferred source of info as compared to television. If you have cancer, you'd probably already be in regular touch with a doctor. On the other hand, I see commericals for drugs that treat things like Eczema - someone could be dealing with that long term and just have no idea there are new treatments available and no real reason to go ask about them rather than keep using whatever less effective solution they were given ten years ago.

TheOldMole
Mar 22 2018 06:11 PM
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NYU Hospital was grueling but worth it.

I'm now going to have work at relearning something no one should ever have to relearn, because we're born knowing it: that ingesting nourishment through one's mouth should be a pleasurable experience.

MFS62
Mar 24 2018 07:41 AM
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TheOldMole wrote:
NYU Hospital was grueling but worth it. I'm now going to have work at relearning something no one should ever have to relearn, because we're born knowing it: that ingesting nourishment through one's mouth should be a pleasurable experience.


Mole, I'm with ya'.
I hope to go back to work this Monday to test if I'll be able to return full time.
Recovery is a bi**h. It has been very painful.
But then, I consider the alternative.

Later

Rockin' Doc
Mar 24 2018 08:14 AM
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Mole and 62, I am glad you are both improving as you near the end of your grueling battles with cancer. I wish you both continued improvement in your recoveries.

MFS62
Mar 24 2018 10:35 AM
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Thanks, Doc. I'll be rooting for Duke along with you.

Later

41Forever
Mar 28 2018 02:47 PM
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Rockin' Doc wrote:
Mole and 62, I am glad you are both improving as you near the end of your grueling battles with cancer. I wish you both continued improvement in your recoveries.



Big time!

Edgy MD
Aug 05 2018 08:17 PM
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The Great Molio just reported that he's in recovery from an 11-hour adventure on the operating table. Sounds like he's got a solid prognosis going forward but I'm sure he could use all our best.

cooby
Aug 06 2018 04:59 PM
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He’s got it!

MFS62
Aug 07 2018 07:44 AM
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Yep.
You go, Mole.
We're with you.

Later

Rockin' Doc
Aug 07 2018 08:00 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you Mole. Hope you have a speedy and complete recovery.

MFS62
Aug 31 2018 07:30 AM
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I went for my six month checkup and the tests showed the surgery was a success. The carcinoma didn't spread. The Doctor said to come back in a year.
The only problem is, I had so many fucking tests, I glow in the dark.
And now that all restrictions are off, I have to do all those storm cleanup and other heavy lifting things I couldn't do around the house. (I wasn't allowed to lift anything more than 10 pounds.) Woof.

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seawolf17
Aug 31 2018 07:36 AM
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Good news, 62! Congrats. (On everything except all the work you have to do around the house.)

:)

Benjamin Grimm
Aug 31 2018 07:40 AM
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Congratulations!

And if you were a sitcom character, you wouldn't share your results with your wife so that you could continue getting out of doing chores.

d'Kong76
Aug 31 2018 09:20 AM
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Good to hear! Now grab an ax and a chainsaw and cut four months of
firewood. Winter is right around the corner.

41Forever
Aug 31 2018 12:46 PM
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MFS62 wrote:
I went for my six month checkup and the tests showed the surgery was a success. The carcinoma didn't spread. The Doctor said to come back in a year.
The only problem is, I had so many fucking tests, I glow in the dark.
And now that all restrictions are off, I have to do all those storm cleanup and other heavy lifting things I couldn't do around the house. (I wasn't allowed to lift anything more than 10 pounds.) Woof.

Later


Outstanding !!!!! You are tough!

MFS62
Sep 01 2018 03:11 PM
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Thanks, folks.

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Rockin' Doc
Sep 01 2018 06:01 PM
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Wonderful news, 62. Glad to hear of your great check ups.

Ashie62
Nov 06 2018 08:14 PM
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Just a prayer for anyone or loved one fighting cancer

MFS62
Nov 08 2018 07:13 AM
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Ashie62 wrote:
Just a prayer for anyone or loved one fighting cancer

Thanks, Ashie.
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