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Fman99 Dec 24 2015 05:16 PM |
According to those ever present "sources," via Heyman, the Mets never went past "two or three" years in their offer to Cespedes.
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Nymr83 Dec 24 2015 05:21 PM Re: Low Balled |
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you know what i bet will be "SUCKY"? the WAR per $ produced when whatever contract Cespedes signs is up.
are you really advocating that the Mets pay him based on what he did for them this year rather than what they expect going forward?
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Frayed Knot Dec 24 2015 06:05 PM Re: Low Balled |
Yeah, I remember warning Met fans, even as it was ongoing, not to fall too much in love with what Cespedes was doing and expect that level of production to continue.
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Centerfield Dec 24 2015 06:11 PM Re: Low Balled |
He's has a career OPS of over .800. And upgrades Lagares by 150 points. He's probably not the monster he looked to be, but he is still a very good hitter and a terrific all around player.
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Fman99 Dec 24 2015 06:15 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I'm worried about 2016, not 2021. They're replacing his bat with cream puffs and you know it. I'm advocating that they stop acting like penny pinching assholes and sign a marquee hitter of some kind.
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Edgy MD Dec 24 2015 06:21 PM Re: Low Balled |
I'm happy with putting "National League Champs" on the marquee.
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d'Kong76 Dec 24 2015 06:31 PM Re: Low Balled |
Yeah, like when we were young and basked in the glory of 1973 for
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MFS62 Dec 24 2015 06:44 PM Re: Low Balled |
When I saw the thread title, I thought it was a spin off of Edgy's Valdespin comment in another thread.
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metsmarathon Dec 24 2015 07:03 PM Re: Low Balled |
5-6 years would've been too much any ways. I would've aimed for 3-4 myself.
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Mex17 Dec 24 2015 09:26 PM Re: Low Balled |
I would have either locked up Cespedes or gone hard after Heyward. That said, I'm not going to say that the absence of either of those two things happening means an automatic relegation back to the days of a totally limp lineup. What Alderson is trying to do could work, I think that it has in the past for other teams (such as the one that just beat us in the World Series and perhaps other championship teams that have been assembled in Oakland in the past by Alderson and DePodesta).
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Mex17 Dec 24 2015 09:55 PM Re: Low Balled |
. . .and I would hope that they, at the very least, give us Raburn at this point as the "complimentary righthanded outfielder". Denofria's splits say that he is actually way better as a highhanded hitter against righthanded pitching. That does not really fit.
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Edgy MD Dec 24 2015 10:04 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Your face is gonna get stuck like that.
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RealityChuck Dec 24 2015 10:39 PM Re: Low Balled |
Four years with an option for a fifth is the most anyone should go for Cespedis. Otherwise, you're probably stuck with overpaying him the last few years.
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Centerfield Dec 25 2015 12:33 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Exactly. It's not just that they passed on Cespedes. It's that they passed on Heyward and Upton and Alex Gordon and Chris Davis in addition to passing on Cespedes. Hell they didn't even wait on a second tier guy like Denard Span. Their motto is basically "if you've heard of him, he's too expensive for us!"
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Fman99 Dec 25 2015 02:51 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Yep, this is the sucky right here.
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batmagadanleadoff Dec 25 2015 03:53 AM Re: Low Balled |
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I'm so sick and tired of this line because, you know what, that should never be a New York City franchise's problem. Unless the whole goddamn team is made up of free agents signed in their 30's. Jeez, talk about lowered expectations.
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Nymr83 Dec 25 2015 04:56 AM Re: Low Balled |
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great article here from ESPN discussing why Fangraphs projects Cespedes to have THE SINGLE BIGGEST DROPOFF IN WAR IN THE ENTIRE MAJOR LEAGUES from 2015 to 2016
but yeah, lets just throw money at him to show we can spend!
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batmagadanleadoff Dec 25 2015 05:44 AM Re: Low Balled |
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That's not what I was getting at. This board is full of thoughtful posts opining why the Mets shouldn't pursue any of this year's top position playing free agents. The arguments against signing those players are as compelling as the arguments for. And I agree with many of the opinions here, on both sides of the issue. And I'm not advocating that the Mets should or should have specifically targeted Heyward or Yoenis or Upton or anyone else, either. In fact, I haven't participated meaningfully in any of this off season's exchanges here examining what the Mets would have to do, who they'd have to move or shift, who'd get reduced playing time and whose role would be mooted were the Mets to sign one of this off season's big catches. The reason I haven't participated in those exchanges is because, honestly, I'm not prepared to do so. And the reason I'm not prepared is because I haven't examined those issues as closely as I normally would. Why? Because in my heart, because of what I truly believe, because of the way I experience the Mets -- these Mets -- I think it's a total waste of my time. It's a waste of my time because I never thought, for even half of a second, ever, that the Mets would ever pursue any of those FA's -- never believed, for even half a second, that these Mets could afford any of those guys. And it doesn't matter to me that the Mets made dozens of millions of unanticipated extra dollars from their WS run. That's a one-year thing. But the debt is overwhelming. Enormous. Crippling. And it'll be there year after year after year. And to sign one of these so called big fish FA's is gonna take a lot more than, say $20M. It's gonna take $20 to $30M this year, and then next year, and then the year after that and the year after that etc., etc, etc. My big gripe is not that the Mets aren't necessarily pursuing Yoenis or Heyward, or anyone. My gripe is that if the Mets privately determined that any of these big fish were worth pursuing, they wouldn't be able to do a thing about it because they don't have the funds. They can't afford these guys, but let Fred bullshit everyone that all is well. Apparently, that line still works on many Mets fans. That's my gripe -- that they can't afford those guys. The team's broken, money-wise, and really, the owners should be forced to sell the team. This is no way to operate a NYC team in this era. The incoming owners would pay fair market value for the team, the lenders would get paid off because, presumably, they have priority on the sale of the team just the way that a bank on a first mortgage has priority on the sale of the mortgaged home. That debt load would come out of the owner's share, meaning that Fred and Saul and friends would walk away with a small percentage of the total sale price and they'd deserve it for their bumbling, reckless, incompetent handling of the team. The debt would we wiped away and the new owners would get to operate with a clean financial slate. So that's it. It's not that they aren't chasing Yoenis. It's that they can't afford him whether he's worth the money or not.
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Centerfield Dec 25 2015 01:11 PM Re: Low Balled |
This. A thousand times this. A million times this.
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Mex17 Dec 25 2015 02:28 PM Re: Low Balled Edited 3 time(s), most recently on Dec 25 2015 06:03 PM |
Prior to working for my current organization, I spent ten years at a company that was privately owned by one guy. The guy was obviously successful in life. . .he had his own insurance company which employed around 300-400 people, he had his house in the Roslyn-Manhasset area, he had his Mercedes, he was able to send his kids to private schools, he even had a few race horses and a stable as a little side business. But he in no way has the capital that it would take to purchase and operate a Major League baseball team, and I am sure that he would be the first one to tell you that. This is the level that I have long suspected that the Wilpons are on in reality, and there is nothing to be ashamed of in reaching that level of success. . .it allowed Fred to get in initially in 1980 with that 1% or so stake in the team that he originally had. But then he got in with Madoff, and (again, this is my personal suspicion) Madoff artificially inflated the perception of what their worth was, artificially inflated their egos, and allowed them to do the 50% hostile takeover from Doubleday in 1986 and then the full buyout later on. So now it has all hit the fan, and we are stuck with a guy who is rich but not that rich owning the team, not being able to operate it properly, and too stubborn to bite the bullet and sell off (which would solve all the problems with his own personal debt, the team debt, and the operating budget going forward). At best, I think the Wilpons are comparable to Howard Milstein and Steven Gluckstern, two other rich but not that rich guys from Nassau's Miracle Mile area who tried owning the Islanders for awhile, realized that they in over their head, and promptly got out.
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d'Kong76 Dec 25 2015 02:42 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Laughing out loud at your smartphone in front of a kitchen full of nif's was pretty funny last evening.
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batmagadanleadoff Dec 25 2015 07:52 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Yes, Virginia, ....
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d'Kong76 Jan 01 2016 06:41 PM Re: Low Balled |
Kallet: Mets Are Significantly Worse Than They Were After World Series
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Edgy MD Jan 01 2016 07:45 PM Re: Low Balled |
Kallet in January 2015: "Assuming Offseason Is Complete, Mets Are Not a Playoff Team"
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d'Kong76 Jan 01 2016 08:04 PM Re: Low Balled |
Well, they weren't a playoff-esque team until mid summer. Amirite?
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Centerfield Jan 01 2016 08:24 PM Re: Low Balled |
You are right. And so was Kallet. Both times.
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Edgy MD Jan 01 2016 08:28 PM Re: Low Balled |
I know. Happy new year.
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d'Kong76 Jan 01 2016 08:34 PM Re: Low Balled |
I don't know why, perhaps it's the ball that dropped on my head last night;
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Centerfield Jan 01 2016 08:41 PM Re: Low Balled |
Would be something wouldn't it?
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batmagadanleadoff Jan 01 2016 09:43 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Too much? By what measure? The Mets are in the bottom third in payroll.
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LeiterWagnerFasterStrongr Jan 01 2016 09:51 PM Re: Low Balled |
I'm not sure about a price drop, per se, but multiple sources do seem to indicate that-- with the Orioles nowhere near Cespedes at his reported asking price, and the White Sox unwilling to go above three years-- the market is softening significantly.
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Edgy MD Jan 02 2016 12:46 AM Re: Low Balled |
You had me until "cocoa," then you lost me big time.
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Ceetar Jan 02 2016 01:08 AM Re: Low Balled |
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what does that even mean? It's a long season, and simply stating the year 'better on paper' than the team was when the season ended is pretty meaningless. You replay that World Series again immediately and the Mets could just as well win it. They had as much a chance as anyone in the playoffs. The team as it stands now is in a very very good position to make the playoffs and have that chance again. Better than last year. "on paper" the Mets rotation is easily 20% better just by the calendar saying 2016 instead of 2015. Just on the basis of who's going to pitch the ~1458 innings. I happen to believe the Mets could go 6 years on Cespedes and blow him out of the water if they really wanted to. But no matter what team you are, when you start doing that suddenly you have to do it again and again and those contracts start stacking and hurting. Yes, the Mets should be able to weather a couple of bad contracts, but they don't necessarily need to take them on just because they can. Certainly not for Cespedes. That stuff should be reserved for top 10 guys like Wright, and irreplaceable guys like Shortstops (Reyes would've been worth it still, imo), Catchers and Center Fielders. (which Cespedes isn't)
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Nymr83 Jan 02 2016 01:47 AM Re: Low Balled |
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i dont agree that the roster as constructed on april 1st wasnt playoff worthy, a full season of wright/d'arnaud probably equals the 2 great months of cespedes
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Gwreck Jan 02 2016 04:41 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Yeah, well, they didn't win it, did they? And Isn't the point to make the team better so that they have a better chance than anyone in the playoffs? And can make the playoffs every season?
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El Segundo Escupidor Jan 02 2016 04:52 AM Re: Low Balled |
This offseason reeks of the same bullshit as the 2001 offseason where Appier (replacing Hampton) and Shinjo were the Wilpon's idea of acquiring the missing pieces to "go one better" the following year.
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Centerfield Jan 02 2016 01:43 PM Re: Low Balled |
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It means that the NY Mets had better players in October of 2015 than they do now. As of now, their lineup is weaker, their rotation is weaker, and their bullpen is weaker. Their bench may be comparable. I get that they still have a good chance to make the playoffs next year, even though they are worse than last year. For me, that is not good enough. I think the goal of every offseason should be to get better. They've failed at this. In fact, as LWFS said, there's been nothing to indicate that getting better was even on their radar. If just being "good enough" is good enough for you, then I can see why you would be happy. I think they should try field the best team possible. And that is why this off-season is so frustrating for me. Unlike last off-season, better, easily obtainable options are everywhere. I agree with you that "better on paper" doesn't mean everything. Anything can happen in baseball. But it certainly means something. And since we don't have a crystal ball, that information, which is a compilation of s past performance, is our best indicator of future performance. That is why we can reasonably conclude that the Mets have better starting pitching than the Phillies. Or, why Jason Heyward gets multiple suitors around $200 million, while no team has offered me shit this offseason. At this point, indications are that you don't need to go 6 years on Cespedes. Four or five may get it done. And I certainly don't buy the logic that once you make a big deal, you have to keep making them.
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Centerfield Jan 02 2016 01:55 PM Re: Low Balled |
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And it's also reminiscent of the poor offseason following the 2006 season. It really does seem like the Wilpon philosophy is "Wow, we were great last year. We can afford to pull up a bit." At least in 2001 and 2007, the failures were somewhat defensible. In 2001 and 2007 the Mets had a top tier payroll (4th in MLB, 3rd in MLB respectively) and in both off-seasons there were a limited number of readily available options. This year, the core of young players is much better than those years, they have a low payroll, so there either is, or should be, money to spend, and there was a glut of talent available on the market. Some of it is even still there.
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Edgy MD Jan 02 2016 02:27 PM Re: Low Balled |
Kevin Appier's was a bad contract, but it certainly did less damage than Hampton's did.
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d'Kong76 Jan 02 2016 02:41 PM Re: Low Balled |
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You thought so, a lot of us didn't...viewtopic.php?f=16&t=22510
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 02 2016 04:00 PM Re: Low Balled |
I think you guys might be falling into the New York sports pundit trap of declaring the team a cheap disaster because it didn't land this or that free agent.
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Benjamin Grimm Jan 02 2016 04:12 PM Re: Low Balled |
Reed is still around. And I think we'll see Hansel Robles step into a bigger role.
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Edgy MD Jan 02 2016 04:28 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I feel confident it isn't weaker. But the idea isn't to have the best record in December.
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Benjamin Grimm Jan 02 2016 04:36 PM Re: Low Balled |
A healthy Matz would be wonderful. He doesn't seem like the kind of guy we can count on for 28 to 30 starts, but stranger things have happened.
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d'Kong76 Jan 02 2016 04:51 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I can guarantee you I'm not falling into any pundit trap. I don't need a newspaper or talk radio host to remind me that the Wilpons are broke and cheap. The team that we swept in the playoffs has improved them- selves and the Mets have penny-pinched so far this off-season. I also said that I felt they may still sign Yo Yo somewhere in this thread.
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Centerfield Jan 02 2016 05:57 PM Re: Low Balled |
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This is just pointless and stupid. If you are going to dismiss us having fallen into some trap, at least take the time to read what we are saying. Not a single person here has declared this team a "cheap disaster". Even the harshest of critics here think that as of right now, the Mets are favorites to take the NL East. Our criticisms are not anything to do with one free agent or another. I think you might be falling into the trap of reading what you want to read, other than reading what people are actually saying.
I know what date it is. I promise you that. I'm also aware that things might change between now and Opening Day. Again, if you read this thread, you would see the exchange between KC and I where we discuss the possibility of signing Cespedes. No one here is unequivocally saying that the Mets are done. And if they do what we want them to do, I assure you that criticism would disappear. Did you hear anyone complaining in August? If you want to hold off on any comments until Opening Day, that's your prerogative. Some here like to discuss things that happen in real time. (If we didn't, we would just shut down the board during the off-season.) We offer input, make suggestions, applaud and criticize as warranted.
Matz was healthy in October and was very much a part of the rotation. I'm surprised you don't remember this. If they needed 5 starters, Niese would have been the fifth starter. But he is gone now, having been shipped out for Walker. So we are left with Colon. An entertaining player, but a worse pitcher. (And even if you disagree with this, having Colon and Niese both as options, is better than just having Colon.)
I didn't say it was much weaker. I said weaker. Clippard, for all his faults, was one of our best relievers.
What is the point here? That the lineup is better? You are ok with losing Cespedes because of the upgrade defensively between Walker and Murphy?
Wait, so the lineup is not better? I am losing your argument here. Or are you just typing random words like LWFS? SHAVED APE!
So let me get this straight. Cespedes hasn't signed a deal anywhere. So this means that the Mets are right. But Cespedes, you'd have to think, will eventually sign a deal someplace. Will that mean the Mets are then wrong? No one is advocating that the Mets offer a "mega deal". In fact, the last few posts are about the falling market for Cespedes. This is not the first time I've questioned your reading comprehension skills. Is English not your first language?
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 03 2016 02:10 AM Re: Low Balled |
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You know, Centerfield, if you want to have a good hot stove baseball discussion among friends, count me in. If you want to be unkind and hurl insults around, you're on your own.
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Nymr83 Jan 03 2016 03:36 AM Re: Low Balled |
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dont feel bad MGiM, a couple of guys here have gone off the deep end in their Wilpon-hate this offseason and will attack anyone who tries to reason with them.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 04:12 AM Re: Low Balled |
Well, attack is a little strong.
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Edgy MD Jan 03 2016 04:29 AM Re: Low Balled |
Lemmings are perfectly noble little soft-furred herbivores that have been historically maligned by deliberately false reports of stupidity and mass suicide.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 04:36 AM Re: Low Balled |
Then substitute rats following the Pied Pipers of Flushing.
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Edgy MD Jan 03 2016 04:51 AM Re: Low Balled |
Yeah, I guess any dehumanizing metaphor will do.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 05:56 AM Re: Low Balled Edited 3 time(s), most recently on Jan 03 2016 06:10 AM |
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Please. Spare me this. So you can come in with your passive aggressive bullshit, and when I call you on it, I'm the one that is unkind? Give me a fucking break. You know what makes a good discussion? Having the respect to read another person's point of view and not distorting it. If you want to criticize my thinking, have the courtesy to get it right. But this is just what you do. Let's recap.
I complained throughout the Winter Meetings that the Mets were missing an opportunity to improve the team. And gave good, solid reasons why I think they should have made those moves. But according to you, I am just in "woe is me mode". And I am jealous of "shiny new toys". YEAH, I CAN'T SEE HOW THIS IS FUCKING CONDESCENDING AT ALL.
Yes, this was a really dumb idea of mine. I really regret starting the "SIGN A BUNCH OF REALLY BAD DEALS NOW!!!!" thread. What a fucking idiot I am.
That's it. We're just dumb neurotic city folk who can't see things as clearly as you. Forget that NO ONE HERE HAS EVER SAID ANYTHING CLOSE TO THIS. See, unlike you, I've read your posts. And I know what you are all about. You've decided that that money does not equate winning. This is what people "in the know" understand. This is the "smart" point of view. And you look to LA's top payroll and the fact that they did not win the World Series as evidence for this. And you are correct. Having the top payroll does not guarantee you will win the World Series. But then, you conclude that payroll has nothing to do with winning. And that is where you derail. You ignore the fact that having a top payroll gives you a tremendous advantage both in making the playoffs, and winning the World Series. You've seen the mountains of evidence offered to support this. You've read my post that the teams with the top 5 payrolls have won 6 of the last 10 World Series. But you ignore this. You don't address those points head on. Because you know that if you do this, you will be proven wrong. And you're not about to let that happen. You really, really want to believe that payroll doesn't matter. That's why you use words like "overspend". So instead, you distort my ideas. You turn the ideas I have I have given lots of thought to into inane drivel. You turn "SPEND MONEY WISELY" into "SPEND MONEY JUST TO SHOW WE ARE RICH". You try to turn my opinions into that of a stupid WFAN caller, because that is the only guy you can beat in an argument. But I'm not stupid. I'm actually pretty fucking smart. And I call bullshit when I see it. And it's not just me. Others can see it too. Though admittedly they may not say it, and if they do, they will be nicer about it than I am. Don't like my tone? Boo fucking hoo. Maybe you should think twice about being a condescending know-it-all when you don't even take the time to read what I write.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 06:01 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Got it. BEING A CONDESCENDING FUCK WHO CAN'T READ: Good. CALLING OUT THE CONDESCENDING FUCK FOR BEING A CONDESCENDING FUCK: Bad So noted.
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Nymr83 Jan 03 2016 06:04 AM Re: Low Balled |
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who let SalamanderQ into Centerfield's account?
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 06:25 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Tone too harsh? Fine. I'll go with a more CPF-acceptable method of criticism.
You know, MGIM, I'm not sure I agree with that. I fear you might be falling into a Michigan sports pundit trap of being a stupid dumbass who can't read what other people write. Sorry. Still working on my passive-aggressive voice.
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LeiterWagnerFasterStrongr Jan 03 2016 09:32 AM Re: Low Balled |
Not sure if seasonal-affectivity is coming into play here, but it may be time for everyone to take a deep breath or seventy.
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El Segundo Escupidor Jan 03 2016 01:21 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Appier and Trachsel were both astute pick-ups that offseason given some of the other choices, Ashby, Dreifort etc (I didn't realistically expect the Mets to give Mussina the sort of contract he received from MFY). But man, missing out on both Slappy and Manny was confirmation that the Wilpon's weren't really interested in returning to the WS in a hurry. I vividly recall Phillips' response when asked about Manny on the FAN: "Can he pitch?"
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Benjamin Grimm Jan 03 2016 01:46 PM Re: Low Balled |
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We're definitely heading into "Red Light Forum" territory here.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 02:02 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I wouldn't be surprised. I can add that to growing list of mental disorders. All kidding aside, a deep breath isn't going to cut it. I've seen this episode many times. This thread is just another re-run of what has been taking place all offseason. 1. Poster (here, Fman, but many times me) criticizes ownership for lack of spending 2. That poster is immediately criticized. Smugly. Passive-aggressively. Many times, unfairly. And when said poster fights back, is accused of making the forum "exhausting". Here, Fman is nice enough to just walk away. I'm usually not. Read back through this thread. After everyone jumped to the wrong conclusion and called Fman stupid, he clarified his point.
You know what happens in a respectable discussion? "Sorry man. I misunderstood. That makes a lot of sense." Or, alternatively, "I get what you are saying. I disagree. I don't think they need a marquee hitter. Here is why...." What actually happened?
Let me be smug and point out we are NL Champs. A point completely irrelevant to the within discussion. Oh you know what would be great? Let's make a play on his word "marquee" and say we can put NL Champs on it. I bet this will go over great on a poster who is obviously already irritated at the offseason developments. And then let me recite meaningless platitudes that make me sound smart. Keep in mind that Edgy has, during this time, claimed to endorse bringing back Cespedes. Does this sound like it? Smug, condescending, passive-agressive attacks are also attacks. And if someone makes a payroll argument, you can bet they are coming. But this is all ok on CPF. One is free to condescend with no limit. But god forbid someone call them out on this. Address someone directly. That guy must be an asshole.
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dgwphotography Jan 03 2016 02:07 PM Re: Low Balled |
I love you, CF
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 02:25 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Lol. Thanks dgw. Nice to know I haven't alienated everyone.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 02:53 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I think you're being far too dramatic. The Wilpons' Madoff excuse has expired, and people turning a blind eye to that is what I find 'exhausting.' As for 'impossible discussion', my keyboard seems to be working just fine.
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themetfairy Jan 03 2016 02:58 PM Re: Low Balled |
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You know that you haven't alienated me. Although michigan is also a friend of mine, and I know that you're both great people. I hate to see you guys disagreeing, and hopefully as LWFS suggested it's a SAD related thing and everyone will be in a better frame of mind when we get a little more sunlight in our lives.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 03:01 PM Re: Low Balled |
GAH, I just had an image of that sun baby some of you guys like.
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MFS62 Jan 03 2016 03:08 PM Re: Low Balled |
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GAAAAAHHH. Not the SUN BABY! I'd rather read this thread ten times and then run off to hug a Wipon than see the SUN BABY! Please. NO. Later
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 03 2016 03:19 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I actually WAS a Michigan pundit until two years ago. Like I said, I'm all for a civil, spirited discussion about the team we all love. But there's no reason for insults.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 03:43 PM Re: Low Balled |
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I agree that there is no reason for insults. My point to you is that insults can come in many forms. They can come in my form (cursing, fist banging on the table, spit coming out of my mouth), and they can come in your form (soft voice, folded arms, know-it-all attitude with nose pointed in the air). When you accuse us of getting distracted by shiny objects that is insulting. When you distort my arguments into inane points, this is also insulting. And it's one thing if it happens once. If it happens multiple times, that is a pattern. Part of having a good discussion is having respect for your counterpart. Reading their point of view and giving it the credit it deserves. Ignoring their actual point, distorting it into something stupid, then dismissing it as simple-minded is not how good discussions are had. It will, invariably, lead to reactions like the one I gave you earlier.
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 03 2016 04:12 PM Re: Low Balled |
That's nonsense. I wasn't even commenting specifically to you, but to the overall theme of the discussion.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 04:43 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Yes. That is correct. You did not direct this specifically at me. You talked down to everyone in the discussion. Do you really not see what you did? What you have done many times? You speak in a condescending tone, you are dismissive of our thoughts, and you couch us as having proposed dumb ideas that LITERALLY NO ONE HAS EVER SAID. And then you stand flabbergasted that someone might get upset at this. If you can't see what is wrong with this, then I don't know what else to tell you.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 04:45 PM Re: Low Balled |
I think you're being a little over-sensitive MGiM, but that's just me. When you tell
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 03 2016 05:28 PM Re: Low Balled |
I appreciate the tone, d'Kong. I do think there's room for people to disagree respectfully.
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El Segundo Escupidor Jan 03 2016 07:04 PM Re: Low Balled |
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nttawwt
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 07:12 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Freudian slip, the off-season has been smelly but I of course meant post season.
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Centerfield Jan 03 2016 08:10 PM Re: Low Balled |
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See? Now this is much better. Had you led with this it could have been a happy day.
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Mets Guy in Michigan Jan 03 2016 08:50 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Not sure that is true. There is never a reason for the insults. We can disagree without insulting each other. I'd love to move on.
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batmagadanleadoff Jan 03 2016 09:49 PM Re: Low Balled |
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Wilpons Channel Inner Barnum
http://www.rockawave.com/news/2015-12-2 ... arnum.html
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Edgy MD Jan 03 2016 10:56 PM Re: Low Balled |
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This isn't about Wilpons. It's about ad hominem attacks and the standards of how we talk to one another. It's a standard we've long held. I've certainly objected when people have come at you with them.
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d'Kong76 Jan 03 2016 11:45 PM Re: Low Balled |
You don't need to use me as an example to fortify whatever statement or
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 12:32 AM Re: Low Balled |
I'm not using you at all. I responded to your post and its characterization of me.
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d'Kong76 Jan 04 2016 01:12 AM Re: Low Balled |
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That's not passive aggression in the context that you posted it in? Then I joke about the Pied Piper and you whip out dehumanizing metaphors and pretending I'm not attacking while not advancing truth, clarity, or dialogue. Wtf, dude?
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 01:57 AM Re: Low Balled |
I'm not sure what folks mean by passive-aggressive, except to claim they were provoked in their attacks. I certainly deny that.
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d'Kong76 Jan 04 2016 02:05 AM Re: Low Balled |
Like I said, you didn't have to use me as an example. But I guess
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 02:10 AM Re: Low Balled |
And like I said, I didn't use you as anything. I have no idea what that means. I just responded to your post.
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d'Kong76 Jan 04 2016 02:37 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Front Street in front of The Long Branch at noon. No weapons.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 03:06 AM Re: Low Balled |
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You know exactly what folks mean by passive aggressive. And you know what your intent was in accusing Kong of "attacks". Calling folks lemmings or rats is an insult. That is correct. So is calling folks too dumb to think for themselves. But you say nothing about this insult. Because it's a position that you happen to agree with. Funny how this is not called out as an attack. Funny how this doesn't make you sad. Does it not affect you that someone is calling KC dumb? Is he not your friend? I disagree that KC's statement was an attack. More accurately, it's a counter attack.
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 03:22 AM Re: Low Balled |
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I've already answered that. There was nothing passive or aggressive in my statement. So no. There is nothing funny about any of this.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 03:30 AM Re: Low Balled |
Do you not see that MGIM's initial statement was insulting? That it is incredibly condescending? He's basically calling us lemmings incapable of thinking for ourselves.
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 03:46 AM Re: Low Balled |
I don't need to serve myself. I'm just the moderator.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 03:56 AM Re: Low Balled |
Please don't pretend to be "just the moderator". No one gets this mad at people who are actually neutral.
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Edgy MD Jan 04 2016 04:05 AM Re: Low Balled |
I'm not avoiding the question. I again answered in plain words. Nobody used the word "dumb" but you. You can keep re-writing for people all you like. I've been down that road. I'm not interested at all.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 04:12 AM Re: Low Balled |
I didn't ask you who used the word "dumb". You know the question, and you're still avoiding it.
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Nymr83 Jan 04 2016 04:15 AM Re: Low Balled |
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MGiM's initial statement:
saying you are falling into the same trap as the pundits is not the same as saying you are following the pundits thoughts (or lack of any rational thoughts at all in one particular pundit's case) like lemmings.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 04:24 AM Re: Low Balled |
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You're right. There are two interpretations: 1. You are lemmings falling into the cheap disaster trap set by NY sports pundits. Or 2. You are falling into the same trap NY pundits fall into by calling the team a cheap disaster just because it didn't sign a particular free agent. The idea behind both possible interpretations is the same. "You are simple-minded. I know better than you." Such a statement is particularly infuriating when not a single person has ever called the team a cheap disaster.
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Nymr83 Jan 04 2016 04:32 AM Re: Low Balled |
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you might not have, but others here have certainly called the team variations of "cheap" and "disaster", he didn't call you out personally. and its just as reasonable to say that MGiM meant to say "hey guys, i know you are smarter than knuckleheads like i'm just saying there are interpretations that dont go down the Red Light road and MGiM certainly deserves the benefit of the doubt as one of the nicer guys here.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 04:37 AM Re: Low Balled |
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Look. It's late. I'm headed to bed. I don't want this to stretch into tomorrow. Let me say a few things to close this out. 1. I think MGIM's initial statement was insulting. His position, not coincidentally, is in line with your's. I think it is no accident that you call out KC for "attacking" but say nothing about his comment. That is why I don't buy your claim of neutrality. 2. In my opinion, a reasonable person would find MGIM's comment at least mildly offensive. Passionate, frustrated fans, who did not actually say what he accused us of saying will react more aggressively. 3. You continuously claim not to have the time or heart for this. You talk about exhaustion. But you insert yourself into each of these discussions. Your comments, whether intentional or not, are inflammatory. I cannot stress how annoying your "marquee" comment is earlier in this thread. 4. You seem convinced this is some sort of personal battle. It is not. I have never started an "anti-Edgy" thread. My criticism has always been about the Wilpons or management. When I react to posters here, it is just that. A reaction. 5. Insults can come in all shapes and forms. Sometimes insults are profanity-laced tirades. Some are calm, condescending and arrogant. If you are preaching respect for others, I ask you to keep your eyes open for all forms.
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Centerfield Jan 04 2016 04:45 AM Re: Low Balled |
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If this were the first instance, I would have let it go. Read my earlier post in this thread where I quote his earlier stuff. This is a continuation of the winter meetings discussion. This is the third time. And that's why I took it to the red light level. I can only listen to a guy distort my point and condescend for so long.
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Vic Sage Jan 04 2016 04:13 PM Re: Low Balled |
hey guys, i've been away. what's new?
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John Cougar Lunchbucket Jan 04 2016 04:26 PM Re: Low Balled |
People's butts hurt.
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Ceetar Jan 04 2016 05:13 PM Re: Low Balled |
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it's cause I fell on the ice last winter I think though.
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d'Kong76 Jan 06 2016 01:39 AM Re: Low Balled |
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I was there, and have Festus and Quint for witnesses. I don't really get why this particular dust up seems to be bigger than others. Just come back Edge, and I'll wade back in sometime soon.
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d'Kong76 Jan 06 2016 04:18 PM Re: Low Balled |
Edgy, I apologize for being a total dick on Sunday. I was immature, used
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Fman99 Jan 11 2016 03:18 AM Re: Low Balled |
Yeah this went all kinds of sideways, didn't it? Holy moly.
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