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Familia arrested // domestic violence
John Cougar Lunchbucket Nov 01 2016 07:19 PM |
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Oh for fuck's sake.
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 07:21 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Oh for fuck's sake.
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seawolf17 Nov 01 2016 07:27 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Fuckin hell, Mets.
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metirish Nov 01 2016 07:30 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Mets say they are monitoring the situation , SNY on the case. Mets fans in meltdown mode
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G-Fafif Nov 01 2016 07:32 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Truly "ah, fuck" territory.
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Centerfield Nov 01 2016 07:46 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Well fuck. Hope the victim is ok physically and mentally.
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Zvon Nov 01 2016 07:46 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 07:49 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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In Familia's case, I don't even feel like I had the illusion that I knew him well. I'm still not even sure how to pronounce his name! But yeah, this sucks. If the talk is just of a "scratch" hopefully nobody was hurt too badly. And brace yourself for the onslaught of calls for the Mets to sign Kenley Jansen.
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John Cougar Lunchbucket Nov 01 2016 07:50 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I didn't even know he had an alternate last name of Mojica!
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Centerfield Nov 01 2016 07:53 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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I mean how stupid. Just shaking my head. It doesn't explicitly state that the victim is female. Can we still hold out hope that the victim is some douchebag male cousin?
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 07:54 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Yeah, that too! That came out of nowhere!
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 07:56 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Here's a link to the official complaint document: http://media.nj.com/mets_main/other/Fam ... plaint.pdf
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themetfairy Nov 01 2016 08:00 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Add me to the Oh Fuck! brigade....
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Centerfield Nov 01 2016 08:01 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
On the baseball side, there has to be some suspension coming up now right? I wonder if this will affect how Sandy approaches the bullpen.
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John Cougar Lunchbucket Nov 01 2016 08:02 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
If I learned anything from To Kill a Mockingbird, its that a bruise on the victim's right cheek means the assailant led with his left.
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 08:03 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Well, I guess he can sign Aroldis Chapman!
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batmagadanleadoff Nov 01 2016 08:18 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I don't see why not. Reed was the better pitcher last season. (But not according to Schaefer).
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Frayed Knot Nov 01 2016 08:28 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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The whole which side of the family's name to use thing seems to be a bit of a optional and fluid thing with some of the Caribbean/Spanish players. Often the original/alternative is listed on their BB-Ref page but not in Familia's case.
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Centerfield Nov 01 2016 08:29 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Sure, but then you need someone to replace Reed.
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Zvon Nov 01 2016 08:33 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I was shaking my head just like you CF when I posted that pic.
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 08:42 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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I expect he'll be back by around May 1. Or he may not miss any time at all, if this really does turn out to be a hoax. (Which is a little hard to imagine. Is there a Jeurys Familia impersonator going around punching cheeks and scratching chests?)
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Centerfield Nov 01 2016 08:53 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Maybe it's the same guy who dressed like Mejia and juiced!
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 01 2016 08:56 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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This, by the way, is probably the strangest sentence I'll type this week:
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Edgy MD Nov 01 2016 08:58 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Domestic abuse is an "automatic arrest" situation. If the police respond to a report, and see evidence, no amount of reasoning and explanation from the alleged perp and alleged victim will allow them to avoid making an arrest. So there may well be an arrest, police report, acknowledgement, even if the circumstances aren't what they appear.
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MFS62 Nov 01 2016 10:12 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I'm always too late to these threads.
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sharpie Nov 01 2016 10:25 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Oh, por amor de mierda.
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Ashie62 Nov 02 2016 12:29 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Francisco Rodriguez is the first Met bullpenner to have a domestic issue. In the locker room I believe. He skated.
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Nymr83 Nov 02 2016 12:47 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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that was before the Ray Rice video brought national attention to domestic abuse in sports. suspension coming.
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Edgy MD Nov 02 2016 12:53 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Armando Benitez also turned himself on a domestic assault case. The charge was eventually dropped.
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Fman99 Nov 02 2016 12:58 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Yuk
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G-Fafif Nov 02 2016 02:20 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Somewhere between Benitez and Rodriguez was Ambiorix Burgos, also on the blotter.
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Edgy MD Nov 02 2016 01:26 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Man there's a thousand articles out there this morning, all with a paucity of facts.
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Centerfield Nov 02 2016 01:31 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
What a shitty day yesterday was. Started with a bad joke, ended with what we were hoping was a bad dream.
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Centerfield Nov 02 2016 01:35 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Here's the article. http://www.espn.com/new-york/mlb/news/story?id=5457176 In the article it says Rodriguez fell under domestic violence laws. Which means that you can get nabbed for hitting a guy. I can't believe I am sitting here on Wednesday morning hoping that the person Familia punched on Monday night was male. Being a fan makes you do such crazy things.
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 03 2016 11:23 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
News reports today indicate that the victim was in fact Familia's wife.
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Edgy MD Nov 03 2016 12:13 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
It's amazin' that it's multiple days and that's the only emergent detail, a detail which was more or less leaked previously.
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Centerfield Nov 03 2016 02:27 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Well that's shitty. Hope that she is ok. Emotionally and physically. While I am sitting here worried about who will close, she is nursing her injuries. Fucking hell Jeurys. Why did you have to be an asshole.
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Benjamin Grimm Nov 17 2016 04:28 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Familia's wife apparently called 911 a few times but then hung up. A dispatcher called back and she eventually described what was happening.
I listened to the audio of the 911 call, available at http://patch.com/new-jersey/fortlee/911 ... rest-audio Despite some of the descriptions that I've seen in some articles, the tone doesn't sound "frantic" at all. If you decide to listen, you can pretty much skip ahead to the 3:30 mark.
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Edgy MD Nov 17 2016 04:39 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Really? You weren't impressed by the three minutes of dead air and one-way conversations?
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Edgy MD Nov 17 2016 06:15 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I guess "frantic" can describe the number of calls placed back and forth before they actually made a connection.
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Centerfield Nov 17 2016 06:27 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
She sounds annoyed, more than threatened. Certainly not frantic.
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Edgy MD Dec 15 2016 03:51 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Charges dropped. According to Newsday's Jim Baumbach...
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Benjamin Grimm Dec 15 2016 03:54 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I don't expect that the suspension will be too lengthy. It sounds like it should be shorter than the one that Jose Reyes received. My guess is at most 30 games. This new information may make it shorter than that.
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Centerfield Dec 15 2016 07:25 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Wait, so does that mean they concluded there was no domestic violence?
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Benjamin Grimm Dec 15 2016 07:29 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Or maybe that they couldn't conclude that there was.
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Centerfield Dec 15 2016 07:32 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I think this distinction will be important. There is a big difference between the prosecution being unable to prove their case and the prosecution concluding that no DV occurred.
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Edgy MD Dec 15 2016 07:42 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
You're the law-talking guy, but if the prosecution is quoted as making statements that work against their own case, and the case has been expunged from the official record, I'd think of that as a best-case scenario, from the perspective of whoever is going to represent him on behalf of the union.
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Zvon Dec 15 2016 07:47 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Baseball should not be considered the judge in these situations. The charges were dropped. Case closed. No charges. No suspension. They can't be suspending players simply because they were accused of something.
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Benjamin Grimm Dec 15 2016 07:50 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Well, the problem with that is that when charges are dropped, as they were with Jose Reyes, how can we know that the wife wasn't intimidated into dropping those charges?
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Zvon Dec 15 2016 07:56 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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How do we know the wife wasn't exaggerating the situation because she's a devious person. I'm not saying Familia's wife is such a case but the thing is there are people like that out there. As things stand on the record, we just don't know. If baseball does it's own investigation and publishes it's findings I'll back whatever they decide. But not if what they decide is based solely on accusations. That's just wrong.
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Edgy MD Dec 15 2016 07:59 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I'm certainly not advocating denying players due process, but MLB has its own form of due process outlined in the general agreement. And beyond violations of the law, it's their business to find out if players violate MLB policy.
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Zvon Dec 15 2016 08:05 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Great. I'll wait for their investigative report and then back their findings if it is warranted.
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Benjamin Grimm Dec 15 2016 08:10 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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This is what you said:
That can't be how it works, because it's possible that the charges get dropped because the abuser intimidates the victim into dropping the charges. Jose Reyes clearly attacked his wife. But the charges were dropped. "No charges. No suspension" means that Jose shouldn't have been suspended. I can't agree with that.
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Centerfield Dec 15 2016 08:13 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
There are different burdens of proof for civil and criminal liability.
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Lefty Specialist Dec 15 2016 08:16 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I'm betting he gets something in the 30-50 day range. MLB won't turn a blind eye to this just because the charges were dropped in court.
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Centerfield Dec 15 2016 08:38 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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That's what I'm thinking. This is different than "the victim won't cooperate", or "we didn't have enough evidence to proceed". If the Newsday tweets are correct, they actually reached a conclusion that no domestic violence took place. If that is the case, then there should be no suspension. Somewhere on twitter it said Familia barricaded himself into his bathroom. If you are feeling out of control, that's you know, kinda the responsible thing to do. Sure, getting drunk and getting out of control is not without fault, but if you are going to end up suspending quite a few guys if that is your criteria.
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themetfairy Dec 15 2016 09:04 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
If he didn't hit, you must acquit!
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cooby Dec 15 2016 09:48 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
That's kinda how I see it, but as in any of these cases, I hope if he did injure her, he gets his due in some other form, such as a car door falls off when he opens it or something. You know, some kind of bad luck dogging him.
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Frayed Knot Dec 15 2016 10:23 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Determining that it's a non-crime doesn't necessarily make it a non-event.
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themetfairy Dec 15 2016 10:38 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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That would be the most Metsian kind of injury ever!
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Nymr83 Dec 16 2016 02:39 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
its really tough because there are multiple angles to this - but lets start with the fact that 99% of us would be OVERJOYED to get 100 days off from work as the only consequence of these allegations - most people would be FIRED.
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Ashie62 Dec 16 2016 03:21 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Speculation is 30 games.
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Ceetar Dec 16 2016 03:30 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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Then again most employers wouldn't likely find out, especially if the court proceedings end in expungement. It's tough. I don't really like the idea that MLB can or should play morality police. Especially for something as murky as this. Reyes and Chapman, yes, Chapman was a violent dangerous maniac, and Reyes' situation, while not as deadly and maybe possibly more heat of the moment than serial abuser, still resulted in a hospital visit and damage, by his own hand. We don't seem super sure what happened with Familia. Where does it end? I mean, does a guy get a speeding ticket and get suspended? or is it only strictly criminal charges? Jason Werth got nothing for reckless driving even though he spent five days in jail. Very little happens for drunk driving arrests.
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Edgy MD Dec 16 2016 04:34 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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I imagine MLB will have more information at their disposal than we have now.
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batmagadanleadoff Dec 16 2016 07:29 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Somewhere down the line, a big legal shitstorm is going to unfold when a professional athlete is suspended for involvement, or alleged involvement really, in an incident in which there were no criminal findings. Familia's wife is not bound by the CBA or any other MLB rule, and is not obligated to cooperate with MLB's investigation of this alleged incident. It appears that either nothing happened here, or the Familias are closing ranks to make it appear as if nothing happened so that Jeurys could either avoid or minimize a suspension and all of the negative consequences that would flow to the Familias from that suspension, including, obviously, loss of income.
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Benjamin Grimm Feb 01 2017 12:45 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
So when are we going to find out if Familia is suspended, and for how long? The criminal case was dismissed a while ago. The commissioner's office really needs to get this settled so the Mets can know how their bullpen will be affected for the 2017 season.
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Ceetar Feb 01 2017 03:09 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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yeah, the league really needs to codify this better with better timelines. It's only a matter of time before someone actually fights the suspension (although the Union might be spineless in regards to this stuff) on the grounds that "I literally did nothing wrong it's all a misunderstanding you have no right to suspend me that violates the terms of our contract and I'm now a free agent fuck you"
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Edgy MD Feb 01 2017 03:19 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
That may be part of the issue.
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Ceetar Feb 01 2017 04:49 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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I feel like we'd hear about that though. I think they dragged their feet a while on Reyes too, people just assumed it was because the policy was new and they were debating.
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Edgy MD Feb 01 2017 01:37 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
We do hear about it. There's just nothing much new to note.
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Centerfield Feb 01 2017 02:37 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I think this is a very tricky subject for MLB. I understand that MLB is not bound by the burden of proof necessary for a criminal conviction (beyond a reasonable doubt). I'm fine with that. But they cannot be allowed to suspend a player and deprive them of income simply because they suspect that something happened without sufficient evidence.
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Ceetar Feb 01 2017 02:52 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
I think they should just suspend him for 'drunk and disorderly conduct' and make up some b.s. about representing the game/league/etc.
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Centerfield Feb 01 2017 02:58 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
If you're going to suspend for drunk and disorderly conduct you are going to end up suspending half the league.
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Ceetar Feb 01 2017 03:02 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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well, one's that get the police called and such probably cuts that down a bunch.
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cooby Feb 01 2017 03:33 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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CF did you mention that you have a cyber friend that thinks he's hot as hell?
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Frayed Knot Feb 03 2017 04:52 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
NYDN: "Baseball will make a decision on Jeurys Familia by Opening Day, MLB commish Rob Manfred said Friday."
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Edgy MD Feb 03 2017 04:55 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
You see, this is why Hamlet wanted to stab himself.
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Lefty Specialist Feb 03 2017 06:06 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
Well, that's ridiculous. You don't wait until the last minute to suspend him (or not). The Mets have to plan their season. If they're missing Familia for a month, other people get tried out in different roles in Spring Training. If they're not, they go about things normally.
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Centerfield Feb 04 2017 05:41 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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If it's hit a dead end you can't suspend. Agreed on this. Inexcusable.
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Ashie62 Feb 06 2017 02:12 AM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
If he didn't hit you must acquit.
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Frayed Knot Mar 21 2017 02:16 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
So the legal system has run its course, we're within two weeks of the opening of the season, the DR has been eliminated from the WBC, and we still don't have a decision from the commish's office
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Ceetar Mar 21 2017 02:30 PM Re: Familia arrested // domestic violence |
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he reported back and had a press conference yesterday. So I expect we'll hear today, now that he's clearly just a random Mets player and not in any way representing MLB and showcasing the sport on an international stage. There's no hypocrisy there. move along.
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