Should this post be approved?
- Benjamin Grimm
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Re: Should this post be approved?
I suppose so, but if it was a positive memory, it probably (although not definitely) would have included something like "I'm sorry I misunderstood" or "belated thank you".
Re: Should this post be approved?
Well, the possibility that posting it potentially offers a victim the first chance he or she has found to call out his or her victimizer is a potential upside. Giving a voice to folks who've been treated badly and can't find a platform to respond is one of the democratizing benefits of the Internet.
- stevejrogers
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Re: Should this post be approved?
I agree, especially in the vein of what Cooby said in that there would be a little more to the story beyond “you know what you did”Benjamin Grimm wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 12:41 pm I suppose so, but if it was a positive memory, it probably (although not definitely) would have included something like "I'm sorry I misunderstood" or "belated thank you".
Which as I said, implies that they want the player to read it, and engage in some pointless argument that gets lost in the weeds of a social media platform comment section.
Re: Should this post be approved?
If you post it and the feds find it, you could be a hero. You could be the key to unlocking a serial rapist and putting a terrible human being away for life.
There's that possibility, since we've spent a lot of time talking about hypothetical possibilities.
There's that possibility, since we've spent a lot of time talking about hypothetical possibilities.
- stevejrogers
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Re: Should this post be approved?
Fair enough, but the fact that it is being written on a FanEdgy MD wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:04 pmWell, the possibility that posting it potentially offers a victim the first chance he or she has found to call out his or her victimizer is a potential upside. Giving a voice to folks who've been treated badly and can't find a platform to respond is one of the democratizing benefits of the Internet.
Memories commenting forum about a specific noted person on an, no offense, obscure website dedicated to a sports ball team, as opposed to communities on platforms such as Reddit, Facebook, Discord, etc does suggest something else besides “I need to get this story out there.”
Re: Should this post be approved?
Of course, I do understand that you might wish to maintain a more positive, or at least neutral, tenor on this website. But in its strictest sense, it is a fan memory—potentially a really bad one—and though posting it might set a precedent, one could just as easily argue that not posting it could set the cooling precedent of censorship. Though, granted, I will say more than any other site I visit, this one offers the widest scope of 'free speech' and for that I am eternally grateful.
I think the compromise might be to post this one, but if you see a wave of similar comments in the future, that is when you could begin to shut them down.
I think the compromise might be to post this one, but if you see a wave of similar comments in the future, that is when you could begin to shut them down.
Re: Should this post be approved?
I'm not sure there's any more mainstream site if you need to speak your truth about Charlie Samuels.stevejrogers wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:17 pmFair enough, but the fact that it is being written on a FanEdgy MD wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:04 pmWell, the possibility that posting it potentially offers a victim the first chance he or she has found to call out his or her victimizer is a potential upside. Giving a voice to folks who've been treated badly and can't find a platform to respond is one of the democratizing benefits of the Internet.
Memories commenting forum about a specific noted person on an, no offense, obscure website dedicated to a sports ball team, as opposed to communities on platforms such as Reddit, Facebook, Discord, etc does suggest something else besides “I need to get this story out there.”
- stevejrogers
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Re: Should this post be approved?
Sure there is. FWIW, case in point, So far on a few page surface level Google search on “Charlie Samuels Mets” is nothing but articles on his downfall. Not his Wiki page, archived bio from a decades old archive of Mets.com, UMDB or any other place a thumbnail bio with a section to add a comment to would be.Edgy MD wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:42 pmI'm not sure there's any more mainstream site if you need to speak your truth about Charlie Samuels.stevejrogers wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:17 pmFair enough, but the fact that it is being written on a FanEdgy MD wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 1:04 pm
Well, the possibility that posting it potentially offers a victim the first chance he or she has found to call out his or her victimizer is a potential upside. Giving a voice to folks who've been treated badly and can't find a platform to respond is one of the democratizing benefits of the Internet.
Memories commenting forum about a specific noted person on an, no offense, obscure website dedicated to a sports ball team, as opposed to communities on platforms such as Reddit, Facebook, Discord, etc does suggest something else besides “I need to get this story out there.”
There are plenty of baseball and Met related social platform communities, or in general communities (ie subreddits on Reddit) to vaguely tell a story as a first salvo in getting something out there.
- Johnny Lunchbucket
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Re: Should this post be approved?
Write the OP first and see what happens. Come at it from a perspective that demonstrates you care -- you want to do everything you can to help get her message out but its your obligation as the Ultimate Met Gatekeeper to be sure that it serves your audience. Also if there were criminal shenanigans there are better places to report that
- metsmarathon
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Re: Should this post be approved?
this. all of it. especially the last.Johnny Lunchbucket wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 2:17 pm Write the OP first and see what happens. Come at it from a perspective that demonstrates you care -- you want to do everything you can to help get her message out but its your obligation as the Ultimate Met Gatekeeper to be sure that it serves your audience. Also if there were criminal shenanigans there are better places to report that
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Re: Should this post be approved?
DittoJohnny Lunchbucket wrote: ↑Fri Sep 13, 2024 2:17 pm Write the OP first and see what happens. Come at it from a perspective that demonstrates you care -- you want to do everything you can to help get her message out but its your obligation as the Ultimate Met Gatekeeper to be sure that it serves your audience. Also if there were criminal shenanigans there are better places to report that